MATURE AND MATURITY


When Nurdan caught the clock on the wall, it showed 10:30pm. She was lost in thought while watching her son Salih sleeping in her arms and had not realized how time had passed. She put Salih to bed, covered him with great affection and placed a soft kiss on his warm cheek.  “Rascal how innocent while he is sleeping. Yet this is the boy who has been driving me crazy all day,” she thought to herself. She closed the door of the room quietly, got a cup of tea and sat down in her chair. She sighed deeply “ohhh”. Salih had fallen asleep and that short period of time when Nurdan was alone with herself had begun…

She picked up her phone and first, responded to her unanswered messages. Then, she checked what was happening on social media. Before she knew it, she found herself watching short videos. It was no longer possible to follow what was happening on the news. The facts about the genocide that had started a while ago were presented as a war. They were not being shared by news channels but by the people who experienced that horror firsthand.

Nurdan watched those videos on social media and shared them to reach more people.

A video caught her attention. The video showed children fearlessly marching against the enemy, banging pots and pans in their hands and holding small banners they had prepared. Another video showed children who had been orphaned after a bombing, hugging each other and consoling each other. The next images were of a sister consoling her brother. One, two, three… before she knew it, she had come across numerous videos, each showing children unlike any she had ever seen before. These were children more sensitive, more sincere, and more “mature” than many adults she knew. With tears welling up in her eyes yet a soft smile on her face, Nurdan watched these videos, witnessing the resilience of children in the face of hardship.

All the hardships these children endured brought about a smile, even if it was bittersweet one. But why?

What was it that made Nurdan smile?

Watching those children filled one with sense of admiration mixed with honor.

She imagined her son in those scenes. Mature beyond his years, yet still carrying the joy of childhood.

Both cheerful and brave...

Nurdan thought for a moment ... She truly wished for her son to grow up to be like those children.

Those children possessed treasures of immeasurable worth. Courage, innocence, sincerity...

With their courage, they struck fear into the enemy, while their smiles were giving hope in humanity.

These children, with eyes that sparkled with joy, smiling eyes, seemed to be saying to those whose eyes were dulled by consumption, "There is another way.’’

 

Nurdan thought...

What was a child?

Is it the continuation of a generation?

Is it wealth?

Is it joy, happiness?

She suddenly realized... “HOPE,” she said in whisper.

Aren’t the hopes of nations their new generations? In other words, children...

Children give the same message as the growing branches in spring deliver a message to humanity… Spring comes after every winter... Every difficulty ends with ease...

So, isn’t reaching out to a society’s children, the same as reaching out to their hopes?

 

She remembered the story of the Pharaoh who ordered the death of every newborn child. So, throughout history, the wicked had always targeted children to destroy the hopes of the good ones.

But then, there was the stance of those children against the enemy’s actions… As the saying goes, "wise beyond their years”

They were as if “wise beyond their years”,

They are displaying behaviors that many adults would have difficulty displaying. They are more sincere and clearer in their stance than most grown-ups…

Nurdan found herself praying by her son's bedside who is whispering a lullaby to himself…

First for the brave children of Gaza, then for all the innocent ones, and finally, for her own child.

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